When a new baby arrives, it’s no surprise that the little one is showered with love, attention, and gifts from family and friends. From cute baby grows to soft toys and adorable blankets, people love celebrating the newborn with carefully selected, gorgeous gifts. But let’s pause for a moment and think about the new mum. The parent who has already been through so much growing and birthing the baby and is now navigating the world of sleepless nights, constant feedings, and endless to-do lists.
The go-to, favourite gift for acknowledging the new Mum is flowers. They are pretty and brighten up the room and convey the 'I'm thinking of you' message, however I have to break it to you - it's not what she really wants. And for those that are wondering, what is it that she wants - let me tell you a story about when I had my second baby ...
When I had my second baby, I received many beautiful gifts for my newborn from generous family and friends. But there was one stand-out gift that truly touched me and was even one of the seeds that eventually planted the idea behind my business, Sand and Sparkle Gifts. Among all the newborn presents, there was one package just for me.
A wonderful friend and colleague had sent me a bundle of thoughtful products, carefully picked out for me as a new Mum. This thoughtful gift included bath salts, chocolate, herbal teas, and other little luxuries designed to pamper and nurture me. As an exhausted and depleted new mum I was so incredibly touched and felt so seen to receive this gift among the array of teeny tiny baby grows. That gift encouraged me to carve out a few moments of relaxation and self-care, which is so crucial when you’re in the thick of motherhood.
Inspired by the gift that meant so much, I began curating pampering gift sets specifically for new mums when I set up my own gift box and hamper business after returning to live in my home in the Westcountry. My mission is to choose carefully selected items, designed to encourage self-care and relaxation. And I can tell you from personal experience, these gifts are exactly what new mums need.
Here’s a sneak peek at the kind of products that go into our new mum pamper gift sets:
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Botanical Bath Products: Long soaks in the tub are hard to come by as a new mum, but when she gets a moment, luxurious bath salts or bath oils can work wonders to ease stress and muscle tension.
- Natural 'Bump Balm': A luxury, natural bump balm for nourishing skin and combatting stretch marks.
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Natural Hand Cream: Between washing hands after every feed, nappy change, and all the other tasks that come with new motherhood, a nourishing hand cream is a must.
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Artisan Chocolate: Let’s face it—new mums get hungry! A little indulgence goes a long way, and a piece of high-quality chocolate is just the perfect pick-me-up.
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Herbal Teas: After late-night feeds, a calming cup of tea can help soothe nerves and promote relaxation.
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Organic Lavender Eye Pillows: For when she finally gets a chance to close her eyes and recharge, an eye pillow can provide soothing relief from tired eyes and promote relaxation.
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Aromatherapy Sleep Oil: Sleep is elusive in the first few months, but a calming essential oil blend can help when those rare moments of rest come around.
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Natural Lip Balms: For soothing dry or chapped lips after all those long walks with a pram!
- Super-soft merino wool baby hats: Luxury, merino baby hats made in Cornwall, perfect for when you want to add a practical gift for the newborn.
So, if you’re wondering what a new mum really wants, take it from me—thoughtful, pampering gifts that allow her to take a breath, feel cared for, and enjoy a bit of relaxation can mean the world. A little self-care and nurturing can go a long way, and new mums deserve it more than anyone.